Sharon Cuneta is a huge star in the 80s. Back then, I was really a fan. I watched all her earlier movies, when she was still single. The last movie of hers that I watched was Madrasta (Stepmom). Sadly, she also failed to grow as an actress. She chose to remain with those sweet roles, when she had already proven that she could take the next level in Madrasta.

I loved all her songs. I think at one point, I copied her fashion style. I loved the Gabby-Sharon loveteam. I didn't get to see their wedding though, as I was not here in Manila yet. But here's a trivia: my Manila-based cousin, who was probably only 10 years old, went to their wedding in Manila Cathedral and lost her slippers, lol. Call me "baduy," but yeah, I followed Sharon's career, and would not miss her TV shows.

Yesterday, my friend, Aileen, posted on her Facebook wall a YouTube video of Sharon's "To Love Again." I followed suit and posted one of my favorite Sharon's songs, "Friends," too, and I went, "find out on the blog, why I'm posting this."

So, here you are. I'm posting this because I heard about Sharon allegedly going on a midlife crisis. She ate away her depression, thus her weight gain. According to other sources, Sharon has gone past that phase. It was just brought out again because of what happened to Robin Williams. And so, all kinds of allegations such as suicidal tendencies cropped up.

Midlife or not yet in midlife, a person goes through some rough times really. If he doesn't know how to cope, he will really find himself wallowing in the dark. I surmise, Sharon had a hard time accepting her absence in the limelight. She was used to it. She was used to a life of adulation and applause.

Many do not realize that change can be a devastating catalyst, especially if the change from one state to the other is big.

I know this. I'm at that phase now. Oopsy, before you get me wrong. I am not depressed. LOL. I don't think so, because I am talking about it; I am aware of my state now. I pray I won't fall in the pits.

But yeah, I am in a changed phase right now, and I am in a major adjustment in my career. The shift, I'm afraid is also affecting my capability to support my family. We are really in a tight situation right now. I even keep apologizing to my husband who had to take on most of the responsibilities at this time. 

I have no one to blame really. It was a decision I had to make. Besides, in every deciding moment, you act on what is the best step to take at that exact moment that you have to make the decision.

Meanwhile, I hold on to the belief that when you are down now, there is no other way but up. I look forward to my next generation charmed life.  


Posted by Meikah Ybañez-Delid
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Last week, the death of Robin Williams surprised most of us. He was at the prime of his life, a very talented actor, and a successful celebrity. What could go wrong?

I am also a big fan of Robin Williams. I loved him in Dead Poets Society and Patch Adams. Gabbie Tatad asked well, "How could someone who made us laugh so much be so sad? How could someone beloved by so many feel so alone?" Read her inspiring story here.

Cause: Depression. Once again, we are made aware of what depression can do to a person, to a family.

I have two very good friends who have suffered from depression. Both have shared with me their struggles and deep secrets. Their phases are long and arduous. They recover from it and go back again. Everytime they are back in that dark phase, they held on and bounce back.

Because of them I know how difficult it is to be in that dark phase. They don't want it; they don't want to be in it; but they can't help it.

One of them took medicines to combat it. She was on a see-saw with those pills because she would take tranquilizers and then happy pills. Now, I'm happy to know that she's off those meds, and back in her usual "mataray" self. The other friend regularly sees a psychiatrist.

It is difficult. And usually when it happens, they tell me that no one can really help them. No advice, no comfort can reach out to them in that deep hole of hurt, pain, and confusion. You just got to be there for them. Silence is enough, and is even more helpful.

I wish there is a way we could BE THERE for all those lonely people out there.

For now, I pray for all those who have not let go of that rope. For those who have, may you find peace in the afterlife.


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